Relationships are work in progress all the time. I have been married to the same man for 28 years. People ask me how I do it. I say to them ,You can’t change the person you married. All the traits you hated before you got married they won’t go away. You have to love the whole person bad and good. Don’t try to change him, it doesn’t work. Don’t demand .Discuss. Accept the person he or she is.
If you are unhappy with that person, and you want him to be different and change who he is find another sucker. Don’t marry him or her if you can’t talk or reason with them. You need to laugh with each other not at each other. You also have to pick and choose your fights some things are not worth fighting about. You have to listen,love them unconditionally and don’t hold stuff over their head.Most importantly leave the past in the past .Because you can’t have a happy future if you dwell or live in the past.
Think about your life together, Fights over the same things over and over again is a problem. Marriage is a mediation you have give and take equally.Give him or her time to do the things he loves. Respect each other. Never degrade or swear at him.If he does it to you,you deserve better. Make sure you make love to him with no distractions.Know when to let him be, and don’t nag him.Love is a journey with many paths to choose.Choose the right one and life will be amazing.
Marriage is a path two people need to travel together. One should not always be the giver and the other the receiver. Marriage is an equal union..
Love is a journey two people lead together.
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