Romance

Romance is in the heart of the beholder.

What does romance mean to you? Is it flowers, candle light dinners, or sexy lingerie. Yes these are all romantic and quick ways to impress.
To me romance is just like a moment.
The first romantic thing my husband did for me was? Before we were married I made dinner for him at his apartment. I made a chicken parmesan, pasta and a garden salad. Dessert was a 5 layer torte with home made whip cream. We finished dinner and it was time for me to make the whip cream, No electric mixer.So I whipped the cream manually a big task for anyone to conquer.

My husband came to pick me up for our next date and he had a surprise for me.
I opened the package It was a brand new electric mixer for me. It made me smile, It may sound weird but thats what I called romantic. He knew the whip cream wasn’t easy to make with out one so he took a little extra time to think of me and buy me a mixer. That to me is romance. I still have the mixer but it was upgraded to a kitchen aid with a mixing bowl. I can’t bring myself to throw the old electric mixer away.

Moments

Subject today is Moments for the one you love. If I asked you to think about a moment you experienced with your husband or wife what could you tell me. What is  a moment? A moment is a special thought of you. The time he or she took the time to think about you for no reason,just because.

My first moment with my husband was our first date. It was my birthday he was 2 hours late!!!! Yes, two hours.He never called or anything I thought he stood me up. When he got to my house I wanted to send him home,but he handed me a little box,I opened it ,a pair of opal earrings for me. So of course The gift made up for his tardiness.Even though I had just met him I had the feeling there was a good reason for his tardiness .He explained to me he was late because he was taking the state electrician test. Apparently this test doesn’t come around all the time.

He’s stuck on me!!!

Make a moment for your loved one today.

What moment comes to mind when you think of your husband or wife. If you can’t think of one maybe moments need to be started. Create one today,What is his favorite coffee or candy bar ?Bring one home because you are taking time to remember that person.I think it’s romantic!!

Love is a place in the Heart

How do you keep your love life exciting? After 28 years of marriage everyday life becomes routine. This is when problems start in relationships. Some people feel like they are the only couple going through the motions of life. Couples begin to think there is something better out there. They start researching old crushes they once knew or maybe flirting with others to get a response. All of a sudden a spark ignites for someone else Because the thrill comes back. Things start to get more complicated. You may notice your loved one just rolls over and goes to sleep. You may notice your husband or wife becomes a health freak and starts exercising  and losing weight. You may notice the kiss you receive every morning when your partner leaves for work never happens anymore.

He or she is working late all the time, going out with the guys or girls after work once a week. Then you receive the call I will be home late  I am having dinner with a friend. Deep inside you know he’s with someone he or she shouldn’t be with. All you can say is I love you please get home safely.

This situation may go two ways He or she may realize what they are going to do is a mistake or they may just be careless and let it happen. Well I say if someone is unhappy with their relationship stop being a coward,and talk to your partner before they make the biggest mistake of their lives. Trust is something that is hard to get back in a relationship.

If your husband or wife starts sleeping in a different room,instead of going to your room go to his or her  room and just lay there hold them. If you use to walk together take a walk. If you use to play tennis  together grab a tennis racket and a court  to play tennis. have an intimate moment in the shower together or the pool. Stop being room mates and be lovers again. Put your relationship first and not on the back burner. You will be surprise how the sparks come back. If they don’t then man up and do something about it. If  you can’t picture yourself retiring together then get out. If you can honestly say you fell out of love fall in love again.In the end some people do out grow each other and there is nothing you can do about that.

My in laws were  divorced for 35 years  a year ago the re married and are so happy together. Sometimes people need to grow apart to grow together. Thanks for visiting

Marriage is the path we choose,Love is a feeling you master

I know I rambled off but all I can say is Love is unconditional love may become dormant but will emerge again if you let it.